
With apologies to the Dalai Lama... May I present the "Dolly Mama"
On Wednesday night, August Mama and I (Connie) went to see Dolly Parton in concert. Mama had been working on a bucket list where she lives and at the top of her list for a long time she had written “see Dolly in concert.” Well that took some doing and finally Rob was able to find tickets for a concert in Georgia. She is promoting her new CD called ‘A Better Day” and her new movie being released in January 2012 called “Joyful Noise”. The movie was partly filmed in Fayette County, right down the road from OM. We look forward to seeing the movie next year.
Well when Renee, the activities director at Benton Manor, found out about our

Connie, Mama (Lois) and Renee at Benton Manor just before we left for the concert.
getting the tickets, she started researching how to make it possible for Mama to meet Dolly and get a picture with her. Well Rob and I thought, oh boy, Mama is going to be disappointed because there is no way that is going to happen. We had already tried every which way on the web to figure out how to do it and nothing seemed to work. Renee decided to phone the concert venue and spoke with a lady in guest relations. She explained how Mama is losing her vision, has a pacemaker and defibrillator, recently had a second foot surgery and walks with a cane, etc. Renee did all she could to seal the deal!
The lady explained that she works for the venue and not with the performers and their team. So we thought it was not going to happen, but we started to pray asking the Lord for favor and knowing if God wanted it to happen, it was going to happen. I kept thinking that my Mama is the daughter of the King and He knows the desire of her heart and if He wants her to meet Dolly, well it will happen. I must admit that I was doubtful that this would ever take place.

Lois and Dolly in Connie's first shot
On Tuesday, I phoned the venue to ask where Rob could drop us off near the gate we were expected to enter to get to our seats. I am so used to calling doctor’s offices regarding the folks, that I started the conversation with “this is Connie Taylor and I…” Well the gal that was on the other end of the phone interrupted me by saying “and your mother is Lois Stephens and lives at some place that starts with a ‘B’ and her friend Renee called me and… “Obviously this was the same lady that Renee had talked to. She told me the same thing that she told Renee, that they had no inside connections to make a ‘meet and greet’ happen.
I told her I completely understand and said that Mama is God’s child and we felt it was in His hands and that that was not the reason for my call. She was so kind and told me how we could get a wheelchair and where Rob could let us off. The concert was quite pricy for our standards, so Rob volunteered to drive us there, 70 plus miles – one way – sit in the van and read and then fetch us at the curb at the end of the concert. Believe it or not the concert was outside and the temperature in the city was over 100 degrees-the hottest day in Georgia this year so far! Rob could hear some of the music as he waited in the parking lot reading! Bless his heart; he loves my Mama a whole bunch.
At the end of the call, the gal at the venue asked for my cell number and said she

Dolly performing her first set.
was going to email her supervisor again and just explain the situation, but was really sorry not to make it happen for us. I told her I totally understood and to not give it another thought because she was not able to do anything about it.
Wednesday afternoon she called me and asked, “Can you be here early?” I said, “Sure.” I thought it was because she had said she would arrange for us to use a wheel chair. But she said “I’m pretty sure that Mrs. Stephens is going to get to meet Dolly.” I said, “Praise the Lord!!!”
She told me where to have Rob drop us off at the VIP gate and said she would be there with a wheelchair. She was there, all smiles, and we all hugged each other, I just keep saying God is so good and the tears just rolled. She took us inside the VIP food area and told us that we could come back there because she put VIP arm bands on us and gave us a coupon for a free soda. We were getting the royal treatment already.

Dolly put on another great set of songs after the intermission. It was a fantastic concert.
She took us backstage and then down to the area where Dolly’s bus was parked. After a good long wait, and lots of nervousness, Dolly stepped out of her bus. She was beautiful and all smiles. Mama jumped up from the wheel chair and made it over to Dolly and both were all grins. I was so nervous trying to take pictures with my camera and sweating (the temperature was still in the high nineties and I was nervous). Then the professional photographer took Mama and Dolly’s picture. The photographer asked if I was her daughter. I said, “Yes” and she asked me to get in the next shot. It all happened in less than 90 seconds, but what a thrill it was for both of us!
The concert was wonderful with all of her favorite songs and some from her new CD. She also said that she wanted this concert and new CD to be uplifting and joyful. She did some old hymns too. She said that when she sits down to write a new song, she prays and asks the Lord for the right words! She is not all flash. There is a big heart there too. She has not forgotten her roots and her love of the Lord.

"The Trio" - Dolly, Lois and Connie - Songbirds of the new century
It was a truly a special evening, not one we will soon forget. Thanks Lord for caring for your child, my Mama, and giving her a special wish come true. Thanks for letting me share this special event with you.
May the Lord get all the glory,
Connie